We have been married for decades! We have learned through trial and error that communication is the key to a strong marital relationship. Always keep the lines of communication open, even when you are angry. Never go to bed angry … it’s not good for your health and robs you of a good night’s sleep. Try to go for walks on a regular basis. It gives you an opportunity to get away from the television and other distractions. Holding hands, walking, and talking is a relaxing activity that gives you a chance to re-connect. Walking elevates your endorphins, which makes you both feel better. Many years ago, we took a course in Couple Communications. We learned how to parrot back each other’s words. If you are having a problem “hearing” each other, let your partner say what he is feeling. Then, instead of responding, parrot back what your partner just said. It makes them feel “heard.”
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